Letting go is not always associated with love, passion and intimacy. Letting go is a universal term used to depict any act of intellectual or emotional giving up of an aspiration usually for a good end or simply the acceptance of what is
beyond ones control.
-------- Storm
It's human nature to care and to expect care in return. What if you are placed in a position where what you give is not reciprocated with at least what you expect? It is like making intellectual and emotional investments that you cannot withdraw some for yourself? Or not even a good benefit to be expected at the end of the day? One can't force others to give back something or anything in return as this needs to be voluntary. There is nothing wrong with caring however, if disappointments hits you hard quite a few times maybe you should rethink. Care is supposed to feel good not bad. Is it worth the investment? Care in this case is an emotional decision not intellectual. Your intellect will usually dictate you to act the investment however if you stop, it is only the act that stops ... not your emotional decision.
Both emotional and intellectual care will usually dictate you to be in between to decisions like being in between two huge rocks that is about to collide with each other. For you to make a decision, you will usually consider pros and cons with both in mind. Usually a hard decision to make but one needs to be made because of necessity and emotionally related value. If there is a thing called "win win situation", this could be the opposite depending on how you react or think about it.
And now love... Billions of unsuccessful love stories are told and about to be told and they all have one thing in common ... one cannot be ones pair anymore because of many possible universal reasons. Either one or both goes the other way. Fighting for what both had is always a given scenario but its human nature to hold on... even if it scars ones dignity.
If it is not meant to be, then that is how it is. One will tend to dwell on the lingering pain simply because one wants to feel good and secured knowing the fact he or she is tightly holding on to the love that is not meant to be. Eventually, if the pain constantly batters ones intellect, emotions and dignity, the intellect will usually takeover and this is where the so called hardest part to do happens... letting go. Saying goodbye is easy... letting go is the hardest part but at the end of the day, it will usually be rewarding like being reborn. Getting in touch with oneself. That feeling of content that one is able to triumphantly battle with oneself. But here is something that is worth a ponder ;
TASTE THE FEELING OF KNOWING THAT ONE WAS TAKEN OUT AND YOU COULD BE THE NEXT ... SCARY S..T EH? AND THEN YOU REALIZE YOU HAVE NO ONE TO RUN TO ... DANG!
MY HEART REMEMBERS YOU LIKE THIS NOW... I SINCERELY THANK YOU FOR DOING WHAT YOU DID. YOU SUBCONSCIOUSLY SAND PAPERED ME AND I TURNED OUT WELL. THIS I OWE TO YOU.
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